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Things you'd have to be crazy to do in the USA in 2025;

1. Fly in an aircraft of any kind
2. Have money in the stock market
3. Travel here from another country

So many more soon to be added.

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Kink is not inherently pornographic.

Kink gear is not inherently pornographic.

Kink expression is not inherently pornographic.

From suits to latex, gear can be just costumes.

Leather harnesses? Ah yes, of course, that spongebob screenshot with mr krabs in leather gear and harnessing, is that porn?

"But it is a mad max reference"
why yes, and it was explicitly kinky in mad max.

Michelle Pfeiffer wearing tight shiny latex and a whip in batman returns, and explicitly calling out materials, molded rubber in batman's suit

was that pornographic?

It was not meant to be just *neutral*, the movie is not subtle about creepy sexuality and hangups.

The pup hoods in the masked singer
Were those porn?

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the biggest thing holding me back from getting into kink was not realizing that it's more than just sex stuff.

and now i'm kobold puppy

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At this stage it is just about cruelly controlling other people


Finally getting warm enough to be sitting out in the garden.

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@DeltaWye I wanted a giant plushie one for taking to cons and fursuiting with >.>
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@Jencen I know it’s clearly a pillow but… I still have mixed feelings about this. (Sort of like Marge Simpson making a concerned “hrmmmm!” noise.)
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@DeltaWye @Jencen
Yeah, that's the thing, using the trefoil for aesthetics dilutes it's effectiveness.

Like finding some medical stuff at the scrap yard with the cool logo on them and cracking them open to see inside, as somebody with great, nerdy taste stickered them when they had it.

I'm certain @funranium already has a blogpost or copypastable rant about the subject.

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@DeltaWye @Jencen @funranium
That might actually be artistic, unless it's 32 cans of Campbell's soup with their labels replaced.
Then whoever gets to respond to that incident will be unhappy.
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@ftg @Jencen @funranium I think that’s why there’s an additional variant with a skull and crossbones and a running person symbol for dangerously hot sources.

(I think the guys at Goiânia in Brazil said they saw the trefoil symbols, but didn’t know what that symbol meant)

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@DeltaWye @ftg @Jencen Also known as the IAEA symbol for interior packaging, just in case you some how get at thing you shouldn't ever see without it's shielded casing. Went into effect in 2008 as I recall, 20+ years after Goiânia.
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@DeltaWye @ftg @Jencen Because Goiâna was hardly the only incident to inspire the change and very long and complicated argument about semiotic value in iconography had to happen first.

In general, radiation safety AND semiotics professionals are not pleased with this.

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@funranium @DeltaWye @ftg @Jencen "In the beginning, the trefoil was created. This has made a lot of people angry, and been widely regarded as a bad move."
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@funranium @ftg @Jencen Got me thinking about the history of the symbol - this site has some interesting nonstandard designs used before the symbol was universally adopted.

Makes me wonder if there are any others out there, I don’t know how much work was done in other countries that may have had their own standards or styles.

orau.org/health-physics-museum…

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@DeltaWye @ftg @Jencen I'm going to hope you aren't addressing the thing I know very well to me.

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Know your parasites

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About a year ago, my parents made the switch to Linux on their home machines because they really hated Win 10... Today I got a call from my mother to help her out with something, but I did not expect that "something" will be figuring out a sed pattern for a shell script she wrote to bulk rename files.

When I asked her why she didn't use some GUI program she said "I was an accountant in the DOS era, this makes more sense to me than a ribbon menu in Excel".

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vidir from moreutils is very useful for stuff like this. allows you to open files/directory paths as if they're a text file in your editor then rename them there.

Also you have a cool mom.

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@athousandcateaus Ooooh thanks for this tip! I just searched up moreutils as something to add to my eventually-to-be-Linux'ed desktop! 😄
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My middle aged daughter (in human resources and hiring/firing at a large credit union) told me when she interviews people in their 50s and 60s, they always seem to know waaay more about doing stuff on computers than the people in their 20s and 30s applying for jobs.
Go Boomers! 😂

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Welp, FreeTube, Invidious, and Piped are down again; and probably others as well; so I hope that it gets fixed, but it's likely it may take a bit from what I can understand anyway.

I prefer content variety, PeerTube is kinda meh, and Odysee? Well let's just say: "Absolutely proprietary!" because it's using some OSS, and it's not entirely OSS. This is fine though, I'll just listen to music for the time being, and not fuck around with video content for the time being (which sucks because I was watching a series on it)—but, it happens.

I mean, I've been using FreeTube for the better part of...well, around 6 months already without major issues. But last couple of months have seriously been taking a nose dive, and I suspect this is normal.

Meh, everything will be good, xD

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Just the next round in the cat and mouse game. Although yt-dlp still works, so you can still open the videos in an external player

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I don't think enough of a stink is being made about the naked dishonesty of Reeves and Starmer's crap about 'get people “trapped on benefits” back into work'. PIP is *incapable of trapping anyone.* You still get it if you're in work. It is one of the few UK benefits offering no perverse incentives!

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I think that you are totally wrong. Come back in 3 years, not 8 months ffs !

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pls boost

radio is the future: "Radio is the ultimate internet circumvention tool because it is not the internet." #othernetworks #radio

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I am loving that things are finally moving to make European countries less dependent on US software (especially cloud providers), but I am disappointed that there isn't more of a focus on open source software.

There are several government programs within EU counties to fund the development of open source software. We need WAY more of that, coordinated at the EU level.

The best way to avoid being beholden to big tech is to fund viable open source alternatives.

reuters.com/world/europe/dutch…

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we'll be creating hundreds of billions to make weapons, and we can't fund Firefox or Linux development?

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Can we take a moment to appreciate the original Mozilla suite icons? How thematically similar they are, while also indicating what the apps are for? For example, almost nobody's heard of Sunbird, but I bet you can tell it's for calendars!

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this is especially useful when comparing these to the Google suite of apps which attempt to be thematically similar but wind up being too similar visually. The use of color by Mozilla made all the difference IMHO

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In the House of Lords today, Lord Bellamy passed a note to Lady Billingham.

This is an example of peer-to-peer communications.

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youtu.be/R55GBIX8VQY
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Beat Saber Workout - 02-04-2025


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British PM Starmer hugged Zelenskyy. That’s how bad U.S. foreign policy has gotten—it’s driving the Brits to physical displays of emotion.

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Please boost and spread the word.
European alternatives for popular services from the USA. This page is far from perfect or complete but just an illustration that there are alternatives.
european-alternatives.eu/alter…

This is also an interesting page with alternatives,
privacyguides.org/en/tools/

#EU #digitalservices #ICT #IT

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#Mastodon is being more blatant—it will add quote posts.

This will piss some people off but frankly, this has been in the works for years.

To those who believe quote posts are abusive, there is no data whatsoever that shows any correlation between quote posts and abuse.

And actually, platforms like #Misskey, #Akkoma, and #Friendica have had that feature for years, and hardly anyone using those platforms has ever complained.

In fact, I use quote posts every day. No one’s complained to me about my use of quote posts.

Nevertheless, Mastodon is doing the right thing—and it takes serious courage to tell the Fedi Gatekeepers that this will happen. There will be much wailing and gnashing of teeth. But it’s a change that needed to happen.

blog.joinmastodon.org/2025/02/…

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in reply to Ulrike Hahn

@UlrikeHahn @tchambers What you’re quoting implies that culture has a bigger effect on incivility. Which seems pretty common sense to me.

Practically speaking, though, what’s your actual stance on quote posts?

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@tchambers I’d wager that, properly conducted (which is incredibly difficult to do) there are, in fact, connections between QTs and abuse. I think also that some of the founding Mastodon intuitions about QTs vs. replies and fostering conversation with vs. conversation about are right, and I’ve found it refreshing and interesting to be somewhere where they don’t exist to explore the affordances. I was struck on Threads and Bluesky how annoying I now find many (non-abusive) uses of QT to be. That said, they have uses, and many people want them: crucially, they are now implemented on Threads, on Bluesky, and will be here, with safeguards built in. That, more than any empirical study, illustrates that they did cause problems, and trying to address them has been constructive. ….my take in a nutshell…
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@UlrikeHahn @tchambers I emphatically disagree. However, Mastodon is now going in the direction it should be—which is to be an actual alternative to Twitter. Because the truth is, I don’t think the world can afford centralized social media anymore.
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@UlrikeHahn @tchambers
There's been a lot of study on this, and QTs just do not contribute significantly to harassment and abuse. But even if they did, the affordances here are different. Followers-only replies are a *much* larger concern than quote posts.

absolutelymaybe.plos.org/2023/…

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@jenniferplusplus @UlrikeHahn @tchambers Can you tell me a little bit more about the phenomenon of followers-only posts being used for abuse?

Is it similar to how Discord is used for pile-ons? Or is it something else entirely?

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@UlrikeHahn @tchambers
1. The target posts anything at all
2. The harasser replies with followers-only visibility. The reply is visible to the OP, and the crowd of other abusers that follow the first abuser, but no one else. Not even the mods on OP's server
3. The crowd of other abusers pile on, invisible
4. Everyone else gas lights OP about it, saying they've never seen this abuse and so it must be made up, and/or OP's fault.
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@jenniferplusplus @UlrikeHahn @tchambers Okay, that makes a lot of sense. I’ve seen that happen, and I suspect it occurs in concert with Discord chats.
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@UlrikeHahn @tchambers
Yeah. The most pernicious harassment is coordinated off-platform. But it's still not great that mastodon (and many other backends) created this channel to be jerks in secret.
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@jenniferplusplus @UlrikeHahn @tchambers I’ve always known Mastodon has a reply guy problem. And I knew it was worse than on other platforms but I couldn’t put my finger on why. And I think you elucidated exactly the reason.
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Honestly, there's so much more in this vein. This is just the worst one. There's so many affordances that invite immediate, careless replies. And so many that discourage reading or seeking context. Replies are worse here because the software supports reply guys, and hampers establishing norms against it.
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@jenniferplusplus Yep, three years ago, I put in a feature request on Mastodon for comment controls. It’s pretty common sense to have since, yeah, it would cut down on abuse drastically. Haven’t heard anything back from Mastodon, but I certainly got a lot of angry people who demand that this never be implemented.

At the very least, you should be able to opt out of receiving comments. Still not here, but at least Mastodon allows you to opt out of quote posts. Now if only they would allow this for comments.

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@jenniferplusplus @UlrikeHahn @tchambers I call it abuse multi-threading.

You can be abused in broad daylight without a soul seeing it, from multiple sources.

Doesn’t get reported properly as nobody sees it but you. Doesn’t trigger any thresholds.

Massively open to widespread abuse and really skews people’s optics of the situation.

A lot like racism, sexism, transphobia, homophobia etc. online generally (“I don’t see it, so it doesn’t happen), but it’s built right into the Mastodon functionally to further enable it.

I see its intended functionality, but I don’t think you should be able to reply with followers only.


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I prefer #SocialWeb to #Fediverse because these imply two entirely different things.

Fediverse implies an enclosed space for which you’re either “in” or “out”. Which is why the Fediverse attracts to many HOA-type people.

In contrast, Social Web presents an effort to supplement a space that already exists, and for which everyone is already included.

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"Boys Bathing," Johann Walter-Kurau, 1900, oil and wood, 14.1 x 17.7", Latvian National Museum of Art.

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Mostly hidden child "nudity" (shoulders up and some kneecaps)
Chrissy Teigen posted this adorable photo to Instagram and of course 2/3 of the comments are from absolute freaks sexualizing the hell out of it, because so much of the world (America especially) is so puritanical about "nudity" while any amount of violence is of course totally fine. 🙃

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Regardless of what you think about Chrissy Teigen, it's amazing that she's able to still post so many photos of herself looking happy, considering the insane amount of hatred she gets on all her posts. people are so pathetically desperate for attention, they'll hate on anything for any reason.
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Je vous l’avais dit : si vous conservez des habits assez longtemps ils reviennent à la mode

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Billionaires are not “self-made men”. Trans men are self-made men.

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Someone has hijacked the Tor Project's X/Twitter account and is advertising a Tor Coin crypto scam, in case you're wondering how things are going in the Bad Place.

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To be fair, it *is* a great name for a unicorn.

#comic #comics

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Started the day with the trumpers' kid shoving my 6-year-old to the ground while they were waiting for the school bus... he says that Aeden was being mean to him first but this kid has a history of being rather physically violent so even if Aeden was being annoying, I don't think shoving him to the ground against the curb is the answer. I texted the trumper kid's parents, who I get along with as long as I don't ever ever mention politics, and asked if we could meet with the kids after school and try to work out some kind of conflict resolution, but privately it's not surprising to see the child of loud, unabashed Trump supporters turn out more violent even though he's only eight so far. 😡

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Remember, the Holocaust didn’t start with gas chambers in Auschwitz.

It started with politicians dividing the people with “us vs. them”.

It started with intolerance and hate speech.

It started when people stopped caring, became desensitized, and turned a blind eye.

Remember.

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@Lilith111
Cowardly killer?
Folk Hero?
Or can someone be two things at once?

The most balanced think piece I've come across...from the article:
"Obviously, an explanation is not a justification. Nothing justifies murder. I see it as a primal scream from a society that has had enough. I view it as a warning."☠️ 🇺🇸 ☠️
ekathimerini.com/opinion/12562…

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@clintruin @Lilith111
I find it strange that certain people want us to believe that they have a problem with murder, but not mass murder.

I have not seen any of those who call Luigi a murderer express the tiniest but of sympathy for the tens of thousands of preventable deaths caused every year by our health insurance industry. What about the children of the people killed by health insurers? Or do those lives not matter?

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@tofugolem @Lilith111
⏫ And herein lies the rub.

What do we do in society that outlaws murder...(at least for those who cannot afford to buy out) but literally turns a blind eye to "a healthcare system" responsible for suffering and criminal negligence causing the deaths of thousands if not millions?


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She most definitely needs a movie. She was part of the Resistance in Holland, and
Damn, she was a badass. She also helped Jewish people escape camps and blew up some train tracks the Reich used.
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Big Tech is using the nationalism card. When the EU wants to regulate American companies and fines them when they break the rules, then they want to see that as attacking American companies.

What does it then mean when the DOJ in the US wants to regulate Big Tech and fines them for breaking the rules?

The reality is that we need regulation. Big Tech has gotten away with too much. They have grown too powerful. They are doing too much damage.

Choose smaller companies, when you can. Take a stand.

#Windows #Macos #Linux #fediverse #Mastodon #Regulation #Politics #Vivaldi

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